From Goodbye Letters to a New Beginning: What One Client Taught Me About the Real Power of Hypnotherapy

June 29, 2026

By Sheila Price, D.Hyp, PDCHyp, MBSCH

Six months ago, I sat opposite a man who had already planned his death.


A week before our first session, he had written letters to his loved ones and recorded farewell videos explaining why he intended to take his own life.


Yesterday, he attended what was likely to be our final session. The contrast was extraordinary.


The man who had once been preparing to say goodbye was now writing songs, creating artwork, strengthening relationships, supporting mental health charities and making plans for the future.


His story highlights something many people still misunderstand about hypnotherapy. Despite decades of research and clinical application, hypnosis continues to suffer from an image problem. Yet when used responsibly and ethically, hypnotherapy can provide a powerful framework for helping people understand themselves, process unresolved experiences and create meaningful, lasting change.


One of the challenges in therapeutic work is that suffering is not always visible. This client was 45 years old with a loving partner, children, supportive family and a successful career, yet he was experiencing profound emotional distress.


Over the following months, we worked together using hypnotherapy alongside therapeutic exploration and reflection. Eventually, an experience emerged that had remained largely unprocessed for more than thirty years: sexual abuse by a close family member at the age of eleven.


As our work progressed, he began recognising patterns that had puzzled him for years, including compulsive skin-picking behaviour that gradually disappeared as unresolved emotions were processed.


He stopped viewing himself through a lens of shame and began to understand that what had happened to him was part of his history but did not define his identity.


As his confidence grew, he shared his experience with his partner and received support, understanding and acceptance. One of the most fascinating aspects of this case was the return of creativity. He wrote a song about his determination to stay alive, completed an animated book for his nephew and immersed himself in artistic projects.


Over six months, family and friends noticed significant differences. He became more present, optimistic and engaged. He completed a charity run for Mind dressed as a dolphin, enjoyed a large family holiday and flourished in both work and relationships.


This case is not evidence that hypnotherapy is a miracle cure. What it demonstrates is the potential of hypnotherapy to facilitate meaningful psychological change within a safe therapeutic relationship.


The transformation happened because he was finally able to understand his story, process his experiences and reconnect with strengths that had been buried beneath years of pain.


One had written goodbye letters. The other was writing songs. One had prepared farewell videos. The other was planning creative projects, family events and future adventures.


People are often far more resilient than they realise. Behind many symptoms lies a story that has never been fully heard. And sometimes, when that story is finally given the space it deserves, healing becomes possible.


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From Goodbye Letters to a New Beginning: What One Client Taught Me About the Real Power of Hypnotherapy

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